You know who you are ladies!
Not saying that men are beneath you, but just pointing out when women KNOW they are dating someone who is not their equal…
Some things to consider:
Loser guys never view themselves as a charity case if a good woman accepts them.
Dating down has nothing to do with how self sacrificing a woman is to accept someone she KNOWS is not her equal.
It has EVERYTHING to do with how much a woman values and respects herself.
How do you know you are dating a man who you know is not your equal?
You don’t honestly respect him. You don’t respect where he is in his life. You don’t respect his job. Or his character. Or how he treats the waitress.
You can’t truly love someone you don’t respect, right?!
Loser guys are sometimes lazy, sometimes selfish, sometimes stuck in a rut, sometimes careless, sometimes unmotivated, sometimes unambitious, sometimes filled with all kinds of character flaws, and ALWAYS lacking in confidence.
They are many things, but they are usually NOT STUPID.
I mean, they snagged you right?
They CHOSE to be where they are at.
If they aren’t moving forward in life or they have character flaws that would give your mother insomnia and make your best friend call you out on red flags, it’s not because the man is lacking in intellect.
Those guys know what they have going on.
This is why loser guys don’t think,
“Wow! I must be amazing since she chose me!”
Instead if they are thinking about you at all,(they are usually selfish) they are thinking,
“Wow, she must think very little of herself to accept me.”
It doesn’t raise his value to be chosen, it lessens hers.
You my dear are valuable. But that will never matter unless you BELIEVE it.
Please, please, PLEASE settle for more.