Watch this clip taken from the movie, “New York, I Love You.” (Warning: explicit conversation)

Don’t read below until you watch the clip (spoilers below)

So it’s pretty funny that this guy gets all worked up with this girl… only to find out she’s a hooker. Here’s a take away lesson from this mini movie: Men like a challenge.

The minute he finds out it’s as easy as buying sex from her, is the minute he loses interest.

Before he found out she was a hooker, he indeed put a value on her body. It was worth all the trouble of trying to get her into bed, looking like a fool. In his eyes, she could be priceless…

But the minute she revealed that she indeed was not priceless but in fact could be bought at a price, was the minute what she had to offer lost its value.

She sent the message: I don’t value this body. Anyone can have it.

Maybe he was thinking about STDs?

Maybe it was the fact that her being a hooker meant that anyone could have her?

Maybe then, sex lost it’s appeal?

Women, sex can be like a diamond: rare and beautiful, if you don’t give it away to just anybody. (you know me, I’d recommend just giving it to your husband!)

The more you give it away to numerous sexual partners, the less the next guy wants it. It can be like a refreshing stream to that one lucky guy who has access to it… or it can be like the town watering hole.

The empowering fact is that YOU determine it’s value.