Dating Advice

Why She Left You


I ran into this article by the wonderful, humorous blogger, The Barefoot. He is so right on the money, and he makes the truth comedic.

I love this line:

Women talk all the damn time, fellows. This is not new. After a few years, the male ears undergo a physiological change which turns the siren’s song of their bride into white noise for which we compensate by turning up the TV volume.

He talks about how men need to listen, need to act like men, need to be decisive, and need to prioritize their women. If you want to keep your woman, take his advice. Seriously. And if you can’t commit to doing the following and you’re single and contemplating being in a relationship….then maybe you’re not ready to have a woman in your life.

I think these things are expectations of ALL women. Ladies, correct me if I’m wrong:)

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  1. bunnybiscuit

    I totally agree with you. The only thing: men want to be listened to and understood as well as women do. So, what goes around comes around.

  2. MidoriLei

    Thanks for sharing bunnybiscuit! For sure, the golden rule definitely applies here.

  3. King Richards

    I’m putting together my own site rating of good blogs like yours would you allow me to add yours? Thanks.

  4. Aplus

    Thanks for the words, listening is a huge part in a relationship.

  5. Anonymous

    Very true. Think these are fundamental expectations of woman, which are essentially what defines a “manly” man.

  6. Anonymous

    This is definitely something my guy friends should read… seem like something simple, yet difficult to do.

  7. annon

    Maybe this relates to the porn comment as in give it up but if my man isn’t good in bed, is selfish in bed, doesn’t care if I orgasm or not OR he doesn’t come to bed then
    I move on.

    I have felt there is a huge wave of male sexual entitlement (spurned by porn and “male publications”) and that a woman is to sexually entertain and service the man.

  8. Isabella

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  9. Elaine

    I think listening is huge. Once he stops listening, I know I stop caring about the relationship. What’s the use of talking to someone who doesn’t care to pay attention?

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