This is something I learned about men in relationships…

They want to please their women.

Sometimes, (a lot of times) they just don’t know exactly what we want, since women are so ‘frickin complicated! But the good intent and the heartfelt desire to make you happy— it’s all there, front and center. They don’t like asking for directions when it comes to roads and maps… and when it comes to navigating your heart’s desires, they’d rather you just give a little hint now and then. Or maybe even just spell it out.

Remember how I’ve said that guys love to feel successful? That applies to the boardroom, the bedroom— that applies to being successful in making a woman happy.

So help him out ladies— by spelling it out. And watch out. Don’t be surprised–He just might rise to the occasion.