Thoughts on Love and Sex…

Who says you can’t learn from the movies? This is from the movie After Sex found by my new friend Mariela. So much wisdom here!

Love is not negotiable.
Love is a guessing game,
and that’s the beauty of it.
There are no guarantees.

It’s like diving into a pool of water
without knowing if its shallow or deep
and sure [yeah] if its shallow you end up
hurt and paralyzed from the neck down,
but if its deep…
[you know] its a leap of faith…
its like throwing yourself out there without
any guarantees, and that’s what life’s about.

You know those carnival games,
you know how some of them are really hard to win
and those that are super easy and everyone wins
well… that’s the difference between love and sex
Sex is the game where everyone wins a little prize
and no one goes home a loser
and Love is the game that’s really hard to win.

but if you do and you get to take home that
life size stuffed rhinoceros
and it feels a whole lot better than taking
home that little shitty plastic key chain.

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I love thinking about the intricacies of dating, love and life. I share my tiny lessons in the hope that it helps you as you navigate the dating world.

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  1. Rachael

    love the way this is stated. so true. thanks for always sharing your pearls of wisdom in a fun way.

  2. Mariela

    I love it! =)
    btw i love your page!

  3. Avis Bailee

    Love and sex can be one coin with two unseperable faces. You can’t just disconnect one from the other… Love is great and precious and can be self-sufficient but sex is one of the means of expressing intimate and close unified physical feelings with your beloved.

  4. EvilStain

    beautiful,, i saw a movie contains these amazing words in it’s script,., the movie called after sex’ or something like that..=) ^_^

  5. Kroll

    I love your site. I look forward to reading more of your posts. Thank you!


    Very nice! Interesting read!

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