ASK HER OUT ON A DATE.
Our world is lacking of brave men, men who will courageously risk rejection in the name of love. So many men just want to wait until it is “safe” to proceed. They want the woman to give all sorts of hints of her interest before they make a move.
- courageous men
- brave men
- men who take risks
- confident men
- men who know what they want
- decisive men
- ambitious men
- humble men
You become all of those things the moment you speak up and make your intentions clear to a woman.
Do NOT let her get away with putting you in the friend zone, using you for emotional support when what you want is a romance; what you want is for her to be your lover.
Do NOT just show up to places you know she’s going to be at and try to fake stalk her.
Do NOT pretend you just happened to run into her.
Those are cowardly moves.
Men spell it out.
“I want to take you out on a DATE.”
Date, implying all the romantic intentions you have toward her.
Yes, your intentions are not innocent. You want her. Let her know it.
If you’ve never met her before, just politely introduce yourself (after asking to speak to her away from her friends)
“Hi, my name is Joe. What’s your name? … Jane, I’m sure you get this a lot as you’re so beautiful, but I can’t miss this opportunity. Can I take you out to dinner sometime?”
DO THE BOLD THING.
NOTHING is sexier.
Part of her wild attraction for you is simply because you pursued her with abandon.
Simply because you took initiative.
Simply because you went after her with no hesitation.
Even if you get denied, it’s the bandaid theory. Better now, with a brief moment of pain to your ego. It’s better than dodging the issue and slowly getting denied/rejected all the while your heart will be getting more and more attached and learning more and more reasons you want her…
or WORSE YET, falling into the friend zone, as you keep showing up and not getting out what your true intentions are.
Let her know ASAP that you only have ROMANTIC intentions toward her:)
Cheers to taking risks in love! Happy Valentine’s Day everyone!