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  • RE: “The Female Perspective- A Modern Guide to Dating”

    January 18th, 2010 by MidoriLei

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    Wow, this survey created quite an uproar. Especially since 2% of women chose “looks” as the the biggest turn on for them. The majority of women chose “sense of humor” as their number one turn on. I have to agree!
    The results weren’t saying looks didn’t matter, just that sense of humor does more for women than looks. I’ve seen it time and time again! One of my close girlfriends is considering dumping a guy just because he isn’t funny.

    Based on the results of 150 women surveyed, the majority of women prefer:

    1. You only bring up your sexual history once you’re serious

      eh, I’d rather you didn’t have a sexual history to bring up. amen.

    2. You don’t talk about your ex

      Talking about your ex is the biggest downer. Women want to pretend we’re the only ones who have ever caught your eye, much less stolen your heart.

    3. You don’t divulge the secret your best buddy told you

      It shows integrity. If your best friend can trust you, maybe we can too.

    4. You teach each other your interests

      It’s not so much that you share similar interests from the get-go, but that you enjoy each other’s company and want to share your interest with each other. It makes for an ever growing, expanding, adventurous duo. What sucks is when one or both parties is not open enough to the idea of trying new things… or when only one party actually has hobbies.

    5. You limit PDA to first base only

      It’s just respectful.


    6. You don’t get lap dances at strip clubs

      Ha! I prefer men don’t go at all!

    7. You wear boxer briefs

      amen.

    8. You ask her on a date in person

      It’s the “I’m not a wussy” thing to do.

    9. You have a sense of humor

      Humor does for women what beer does for men. think beer goggles.

    10. You don’t google her name

      pfff, I think it’s flattering when men google my name. They just want to get to know me. That’s good!


    11. You only check out her bio section on facebook

      same thing.


    12. You wait three dates before inviting her to your place

      you better have a bible study awaiting her.


    13. You manscape everything and keep things tidy

      Nah, I don’t agree. Men should be men. Let them be. (unless they have a back carpet)


    14. You wear only enough cologne so she smells you when she is close to you. (as opposed to next to you)

      there is such a thing as too much cologne. It’s a fine line.

    15. You have stubble

      I love 2 day stubble! manly. manly. MANly.

    16. You drink liquor

      whatever. just don’t be an alcoholic.

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    7 Responses to “RE: “The Female Perspective- A Modern Guide to Dating””

    1. London Paladin Says:

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    2. Mike Says:

      Why Boxer Briefs…if I might ask?

    3. Dot LeSage Says:

      I LOVE number 4. Sharing interests is not nearly as exciting as a partner who can teach you about new things and wants to learn from you too.

    4. MidoriLei Says:

      Well Mike,

      It’s like a happy medium between boxers and whitey-tidys. Whitey-tidys remind me of little boys and old men, boxers remind me of high school boys with sagging pants. Boxer briefs say young, virile man;)

    5. MidoriLei Says:

      Dot LeSage, right?! I know, I used to think it was all about having things in common… now, just the opposite! My fiance opens up a whole new world for me just because he has hobbies and interests I’ve never tried before.

    6. Anonymous Says:

      I think the survey is quite interesting and there are many things which you must consider while choosing your life partner, humor is not the only one. In my opinion No.1 and 2 really matters in this relation.

    7. Lydia Says:

      LOL! Totally agree with the rest of the women on the boxer briefs…. and not sure why the men don’t get it.

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