I run FAR away from men with tempers. Honestly, they really scare me. One time I dated a guy who was so smooth and charming… and then when we got in his truck and hit the road, somebody cut him off and he started cursing loudly. I wanted to jump out of the vehicle. For some reason his road rage made me feel like I was in danger. I know road rage is common and not necessarily indicative of serious anger issues but it is still disturbing to see. The rest of the date I literally clammed up and couldn’t be myself. We all have our issues and vices. If yours is related to having a bad temper, realize that for most women, this can be a deal breaker.
Of all the potential barriers in establishing a relationship with a respectable woman, unresolved anger issues are the most disconcerting.
They make us fast forward to the future where we envision becoming the target of your rage. We wonder if your rage can turn to physical violence, and then we retreat. If you know you have anger issues, please, please get help.
On a lighter note, this guy’s anger makes for a Hilarious video: