For Single Guys

How to Kiss a Girl for the First Time

Okay. Confession.

I have a not so secret guilty pleasure: cheesy teen flicks.

Yes, I’m approaching the big 3-0. yikes. but will I ever tire of teen movies? probably not.

For all my young pre-first kiss male readers, this post is for you. Here’s a pretty good, quick, how-to guide on how to kiss a girl for the first time: (from the movie Bandslam)

And of course… in real life it never works out perfectly! Here’s Will trying it out on Vanessa Hudgen’s character Sa5m (5 is silent!) OMG. I literally laughed out loud!

Lesson? Even if it’s awkward, weird, not the way you’d imagined it would be, you can still get the girl! Just go for it!

And lastly, a feel good music video from the movie with lyrics:) In short, it’s about this:

In good and bad we are, at least partially, what our relationships make us. We could be grateful or disappointed by that…those guys choose to be grateful and, as long as I’m concerned, I agree with them.(jaycewheeled)

I cannot stress this enough readers: life is about relationships with people, not about accomplishments and goals and material possessions. (I’m talking to my American readers especially! and reminding myself:)

Where Are You Now

Lyrics | Honor Society lyricsWhere Are You Now? lyrics

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I love thinking about the intricacies of dating, love and life. I share my tiny lessons in the hope that it helps you as you navigate the dating world.

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  1. Anonymous

    Everybody realizes they’ve been fussing over nothing when they have their first kiss!

    And then they home in for the second and bite the poor girl’s face off… :p

  2. Anonymous

    Using videos to talk about kissing a girl for the first time is interesting! Great way to share! =)

  3. AS

    Just remember it is not a race and she does not want to feel your tonsils. Go in slow and work up a momentum!

  4. Devon Brown

    A couple things to also remember:

    – Don’t be scared if the girl tries to kiss you first. That is actually a good thing and doesn’t make you any less suave.

    – First kisses are one of the most stressed over events in early dating. Don’t let the stresses and the crazy thoughts running through your mind get to you. Just try to focus on your feelings for the girl (or guy).

    And have fun. Good luck!

  5. MidoriLei

    As, so true!!! the first time a guy kissed me at age 13… he jammed his tongue down my throat, and all that was going through my head was, “Ewww!! THIS is what the rage is all about???! Slimy snake writhing in my mouth???!!”

  6. MidoriLei

    Devon Brown, you give sound advice. thank you:) hopefully our young readers will feel more ready to get out there and get their kissing on!

  7. Jeri Topoian

    I love confessions and it has repaired me tremendously over the past few years, so I have made up my own website about it.

  8. Never kissed a girl in my life :[

    I really like this site !!! but I’m still super nervous !!! :[ n this ismy first gf n she already had her first kiss with her ex =\ I’m gettin soil nervous ! ,

  9. MidoriLei

    Never kissed a girl in my life:[, part of the excitement is being nervous sweety:) Don’t fight the nervousness. It’s like how people feel before they get in front of a crowd. They have nervous excitement. Don’t look at it as a negative thing, but just a natural thing. Use that nervous excitement to propel you to do that bold thing… to steal a kiss! Don’t worry if she’s already had her first kiss with her ex. Give her a kiss that she will remember forever! You can be the kiss that stands out and wows her decades from now. And read this:

  10. Jacelyn Goyen

    Dis Blog is on da for real. Hit em hard and hit em fast, Peace PLAYA

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