I love thinking about the intricacies of dating, love and life. I share my tiny lessons in the hope that it helps you as you navigate the dating world.
Gah, another horrible experience in dating. I am attracting ALL to wrong women, mean girls, hyper competitive girls, agressive girls. I meet the good girls, but I never end up dating them, mostly because they just don’t seem to respond. So lets go back to basics, how should a guy act when he discovers that he likes a girl. I’m not talking about one night, or even a week or two, but just a general blueprint. Because this endless string of horrible experiences can’t be all there is…
How should a guy act when he discovers he likes a girl? He should act interested, warm, friendly, flirtatious. He should go after what he wants. He shouldn’t play games. He should just be forthright and honest, confidently stating his case. “Hey _________, you’re beautiful and intriguing. I wanna take you out for dinner sometime. What kind of cuisine do you like?” I think it’s very simple and guys can make it more complicated than it really is. If she makes excuses, remember persistence breaks resistance. Just keep at it. Most of the time, you can wear her out! A LOT of my girl friends finally ended up saying yes to the guy they initially said no to MANY times because they got worn down.
And then three months later, they are in love with the guy they used to find creepy.
Be persistent and then take a break. She might actually miss your annoying persistence! lol
Gah, another horrible experience in dating. I am attracting ALL to wrong women, mean girls, hyper competitive girls, agressive girls. I meet the good girls, but I never end up dating them, mostly because they just don’t seem to respond. So lets go back to basics, how should a guy act when he discovers that he likes a girl. I’m not talking about one night, or even a week or two, but just a general blueprint. Because this endless string of horrible experiences can’t be all there is…
GI joe,
How should a guy act when he discovers he likes a girl? He should act interested, warm, friendly, flirtatious. He should go after what he wants. He shouldn’t play games. He should just be forthright and honest, confidently stating his case. “Hey _________, you’re beautiful and intriguing. I wanna take you out for dinner sometime. What kind of cuisine do you like?” I think it’s very simple and guys can make it more complicated than it really is. If she makes excuses, remember persistence breaks resistance. Just keep at it. Most of the time, you can wear her out! A LOT of my girl friends finally ended up saying yes to the guy they initially said no to MANY times because they got worn down.
And then three months later, they are in love with the guy they used to find creepy.
Be persistent and then take a break. She might actually miss your annoying persistence! lol