What is the most loving thing for me to do? How can I demonstrate selflessness and love?
To avoid arguments with your significant other, remind yourself to do this:
Speak the truth- in love. (Ephesians 4:15) Agree to disagree.
and remind yourself of this reality:
I love her/him more than I love being right. This isn’t a competition to prove who’s right.
I just don’t understand arguing.
Some people love to argue.
I don’t get that! To each his own?
Some people say that if you don’t argue with your significant other, you’re not being real and authentic.
I beg to differ.
I have four best friends, two of them are my brothers.
My youngest brother and I don’t ever argue, yet we couldn’t be more different or opinionated.
We just accept those differences in each other and have fun together.
Everytime I’ve been in a relationship, we hardly (if ever) argue.
What’s the point?
There are so many other things to do-laugh, make out, have fun, flirt, talk…
I don’t care about being right.
I want to be heard.
I want my opinons to be respected, but
I don’t need someone else to validate my beliefs.
So, I agree to disagree.
I let people be and do what they want.
I figure, I don’t have to ever agree with them or join them.