Do you believe that you’re lovable just the way you are? It’s true. There’s a guy out there who thinks of you as their “ideal.” Unless of course you hate yourself.
If you don’t love yourself, it will be impossible for you to really love someone else. You know yourself more than you know anyone else in the world, and what you know more than anything about yourself is that you have always been and will always be flawed. If you can’t love yourself regardless, then how can you love another flawed person? This sounds so Dr. Phil but it’s true, the most attractive thing you can do is to learn to love yourself just the way you are. I never understood what this meant. Does it mean that you have to love everything about yourself? No, but it does mean that you focus on what’s good and you give yourself some grace where you are lacking. Most people on a daily basis focus on what’s wrong with themselves and hardly acknowledge the things that are good about themselves. When you love yourself, you allow progress and change to be slow. You stop criticizing yourself for your shortcomings. You stop the negative thoughts in your head because you’d never say those things in that way to your best friends. You deserve to treat yourself with as much tact and respect as you treat your dearest friends. Love makes things beautiful. So if you want to be beautiful, the first step is to love yourself.
So now, getting back on the subject, here’s what you can do now to instantly be more attractive: