For Ladies: How to Know Who to Marry
October 19th, 2009 by MidoriLei
he doesn’t have to be
the richest guy
the smartest guy
the most charming guy
the most talented guy
the hottest guy
the most ambitious guy
the funniest guy
Ladies, marry the guy who truly cherishes you.
He’s the one who will still hold your hand when you are old and gray.
He’s the one who will still see the the beauty of your youth past the wrinkles.
That’s why, he’s the one.
October 20th, 2009 at 11:40 am
Yes, to be cherished is the goal! But chemistry/attraction is pretty darn important too. How did it happen for you? Were you instantly attracted to your guy? Or did it build over time?
I wonder if it’s worth chosing to be with someone that cherishes you even if you don’t have that “spark” for them…Maybe people who do that are ones that end up having affairs or in divorce.
October 20th, 2009 at 1:23 pm
chemistry and attraction are important:) hence they weren’t included in the list above! lol (what I meant about “hottest” is that he doesn’t have to be the most handsome guy, but there has to be some attraction definitely!)
For me when I met Nate in highschool, it was instant attraction, yes:) I was drawn to him like a moth to a flame. fortunately I feel he cherishes me too!
Yes, you CAN have it all. But I did have 5 years of being single! (didn’t even go on any dates!) The best ones ARE worth the wait:)
I actually think the opposite about your last comment. I think that the ones that end up having affairs are the ones that settled for the person that they just had a spark with but didn’t bother to wait around and see if that person really cherished them. I think this is true because women cheat more for emotional reasons, not sexual reasons.