Thoughts on navigating through the casual dating world…
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I used to think it was weird to date more than one person at a time, since I’ve only experienced serial monogamy.
After reading the awesome book, How to Get a Date Worth Keeping, I actually think it’s not such a bad idea, if you’re honest [...]

(Thanks for this Robyn!)
You have to envision yourself able to enjoy LOOKING at men, and
THINKING about “one day i will be happily married” without
simultaneously thinking you “need” one now. We don’t ever NEED anybody
in particular. If your parents died, you would still live a good life.
If all of Texas died, you would still have a [...]