Are you new to a city? Want to make some friends? Are you a Christian guy who wants to meet some Christian women? I went to this cafe one day and met a bunch of cool people, including a guy who wore this shirt: (I asked him where he got it and if they made [...]

Maybe you’re having a hard time finding single men or women of your age in your city or town. ‘Wanna know where they all live?

I guess this post applies to anyone, but I particularly wanted to address my single readers. Some of the time, we can get so caught up in the “hunt” for Mr. or Mrs. Right or even just our next love interest, that we forget (I know I do!) that this “season of singleness,” as some [...]

Let’s lighten up and have fun dating! Even if nothing gets serious, we can still enjoy ourselves, right? Most men totally feel this way. One of the reasons women feel so much pressure when they date is because they immediately try to size up their date as a future spouse.
Okay. Guilty. I’ve noticed a [...]

This was written back in June 2007.
I think it’s all the crazy rain we’ve been getting here in Texas. Rain makes me think of dim lights, romance, candles, and cuddling. Tonight I hit a pretty low point. I felt all needy. I went through my phone list and looked up all the guys I’ve dated [...]

This was from Bridget Jone’s Diary: The Edge of Reason. It is Jude’s speech at the end and I think worthy of repeating for all those female friends who are getting married or will ever get married in the future.
The married friend’s vow to her single friends:
Today I bade farewell to being a singleton. But [...]

Singleness, like grief, goes through stages. After decades of serial dating, okay, just years of being associated with a significant other, singleness was this new phenomena in my life, not all together unpleasant, just strangely revealing, like the time in 4th grade when a peer revealed the truth that eating with your mouth open was [...]