Photos by nubuck via stock.xchng (If you haven’t heard it yet, I did a podcast series on fears of marriage. Part I is fears. Part II is benefits.) A while back, Nate and I were talking about how some people really desire marriage and some people, like ourselves, are really wary about the idea. The [...]

Nate loves the comfortable stage. I on the other hand love beginnings. The butterflies, the thrill, the excitement, the omg-he’s-touching-my-shoulder-does-he-feel-the-electricity-between-us? stage. …but what I didn’t realize is something that my best friend, Lynne, revealed to me. The butterflies don’t necessarily disappear. They just come back sporadically when you don’t expect them– like on a lazy [...]