1. Learn how to dance or sing and play an instrument Look at Mr. Timberlake. Seriously, he’s not really hot. If he didn’t dress so damn well and didn’t have the voice and the moves, he’d just be, well, your average Joe. But watch him dance and his sex appeal goes out the roof! There’s [...]

Photos by nubuck via stock.xchng (If you haven’t heard it yet, I did a podcast series on fears of marriage. Part I is fears. Part II is benefits.) A while back, Nate and I were talking about how some people really desire marriage and some people, like ourselves, are really wary about the idea. The [...]