For Guys in a Relationship

Risks in Love

Love= Sacrificing Novelty????

(picture by Rockstar Diaries)

On my way to work this morning, I thought about why I tend to run away from men. (One of the benefits of my cd player being stolen: I have 1 hour everyday to just think) I don't know if other people do this... This sort of "self sabotage" of relationships. Like Tibby in The Sisterhood of Traveling Parts 2-- (yes, I'm guilty of loving even teenage chick flicks) She says:
The problem is every time I try to get close to somebody it's like there's something out there that just says 'Oh Tibby's about to be happy, better get her.'

How to Avoid Arguments

Any time you're in a relationship and you're wondering what course of action you should take regarding an issue you're having with your significant other, ask yourself this question: What…

How to Flirt with a Girl

Remember Alex? I wrote about him in the post "How to Approach a Girl." Turns out his name is actually Anthony. (whoops) I saw him again. He came in for tutoring, didn't know I was a tutor and couldn't hide his excitement to see me. How could I not smile? Of course I ended up having to work with him one on one. Let's just say that it was hard for me to be um, professional. The guy's a flirt, and damn good at it. It was nearly impossible not to flirt back. He should write the book on flirting. Somehow he managed to be both humble and confident in his approach. In the middle of our tutoring session, he got a phone call from a friend and instead of excusing himself he said, "Do you mind if I take this really quick?" I said "Sure, but make it quick." He answered it and as he's smiling at me, he said, "Hey can I call you back? Remember that hot girl I approached the other day? She's tutoring me right now!(pause) I know! Score! k-k. Dude, I gotta go."