For Guys in a Relationship

Strang Female Behavior. Plus, What It Means When She Says “There’s No Chemistry”

How to Flirt with a Girl

Remember Alex? I wrote about him in the post "How to Approach a Girl." Turns out his name is actually Anthony. (whoops) I saw him again. He came in for tutoring, didn't know I was a tutor and couldn't hide his excitement to see me. How could I not smile? Of course I ended up having to work with him one on one. Let's just say that it was hard for me to be um, professional. The guy's a flirt, and damn good at it. It was nearly impossible not to flirt back. He should write the book on flirting. Somehow he managed to be both humble and confident in his approach. In the middle of our tutoring session, he got a phone call from a friend and instead of excusing himself he said, "Do you mind if I take this really quick?" I said "Sure, but make it quick." He answered it and as he's smiling at me, he said, "Hey can I call you back? Remember that hot girl I approached the other day? She's tutoring me right now!(pause) I know! Score! k-k. Dude, I gotta go."

The Test of True Love

Billy, one of my exes
When I said I love you to this guy... I meant forever. We were friends for 8 months. Dated for 6 weeks. But it took me 3 years to get over him. I don't know what's harder, breaking up when one of the parties wants it to end, or when both parties want to be together.