I’ve been the needy girl. Maybe you’ve been there before ladies. I know I have. I liked this one guy years ago. All it took was him paying me a little bit of extra attention, and I was hooked. Over-analyzing everything he said, did, myspace stalking him, wondering who the girls were on his page [...]

(Thanks for this Robyn!) You have to envision yourself able to enjoy LOOKING at men, and THINKING about “one day i will be happily married” without simultaneously thinking you “need” one now. We don’t ever NEED anybody in particular. If your parents died, you would still live a good life. If all of Texas died, [...]