The first step to getting the things you want out of life is this: Decide what you want. ~ Ben Stein
I wrote this blog post because the top things that women type in google to get to my site are:
Do I like him?
What guys think
Why do I like him?
how guys think

photo by lemon drop
Yesterday I did a post on gifts for girls; here’s one on gifts for guys! (It’s only fair:)

I don’t understand why weddings take so long to plan, cost so much money, and become a couple’s biggest headache and stressor during their supposed-to-be-magical engagement period.
You only need three things in a wedding:

dress of your dreams-it’s the only time you’re going to be a bride, (you hope) so you want to look and [...]

Just for the ladies:)
(but we promise not to tell anyone if you gentlemen secretly read on!)

Oh Gosh. I wish I didn’t have a “type.” You know, I really blame it on my sixth grade crush, Nicholas Dragoo. Caucasian brunette boy with kind eyes. If you ever read this Nicholas, I just want to say, you screwed me over for life! Nah, I’m just kidding. Don’t worry, I also blame it [...]

I guess this post applies to anyone, but I particularly wanted to address my single readers. Some of the time, we can get so caught up in the “hunt” for Mr. or Mrs. Right or even just our next love interest, that we forget (I know I do!) that this “season of singleness,” as some [...]

I loved Louise Kean’s book The Perfect Fit. It’s a must read for any girl who believes that a certain “ideal weight” or a certain size is the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. Parts of it were not my cup of tea, but nonetheless, I’m a true believer that fiction [...]

Do you believe that you’re lovable just the way you are? It’s true. There’s a guy out there who thinks of you as their “ideal.” Unless of course you hate yourself.
If you don’t love yourself, it will be impossible for you to really love someone else. You know yourself more than you know anyone [...]

I always thought men weren’t into details. A conversation with a guy taught me not to stereotype all men! Check it out:

What’s in your grocery cart?

I appreciated what feminism has done in terms of equality in the job market, but as far as how it’s affected the dating scene, equality has become synonymous to no differentiation of male/female roles. Although males and females are equal in value and essence, I still hold strong to the belief in male leadership. Here [...]