I realized that I may have not ever mentioned this. I give dating advice as you all know, but what is this all for? Let me share with you how I found out the point of all this.
I had my first boyfriend at the tender age of 13, when my parents (bless their heart) shipped [...]

(Thanks for this Robyn!)
You have to envision yourself able to enjoy LOOKING at men, and
THINKING about “one day i will be happily married” without
simultaneously thinking you “need” one now. We don’t ever NEED anybody
in particular. If your parents died, you would still live a good life.
If all of Texas died, you would still have a [...]