I’ve only gotten two pieces of actual relationship advice from my grandma… the first one applies to ladies.
“If you run, he will follow, if you follow, he will run.”
Mind games? PRETTY MUCH! This is so old skool talk. You decide for yourself if it has any validity. Let’s just say, they don’t call [...]

Are they one and the same? Does attraction guarantee chemistry? Does chemistry guarantee attraction?
Has this ever happened to you? I can look at a guy and be instantly attracted to him. Then we hang out and there are no sparks.
We don’t click.
No chemistry.
No electricity.
On the other hand, I can meet a [...]

This was written back in June 2007.
I think it’s all the crazy rain we’ve been getting here in Texas. Rain makes me think of dim lights, romance, candles, and cuddling. Tonight I hit a pretty low point. I felt all needy. I went through my phone list and looked up all the guys I’ve dated [...]

I have a friend who goes on dates and within 5 minutes knows whether the guy is worth hanging out with the rest of the evening. She has instant recognition of chemistry and attraction. Usually I do to. I usually think immediately, “Hmmmm, possibility,” or “Nope, nothing there.”
But the other day, I was surprisingly stumped. [...]

“The desire of the man is for the woman, but the desire of the woman is for the desire of the man.”
- Unknown
Do you ever notice a guy just because he notices you first? When I was in college, I realized this truth: Sometimes, women start liking men, simply because they like the feeling of [...]