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The Curse of the “Type”

Tuesday, October 7th, 2008

Oh Gosh. I wish I didn’t have a “type.” You know, I really blame it on my sixth grade crush, Nicholas Dragoo. Caucasian brunette boy with kind eyes. If you ever read this Nicholas, I just want to say, you screwed me over for life! Nah, I’m just kidding. Don’t worry, I also blame it [...]

Dating Advice from my 85yr old Grandma

Friday, September 12th, 2008

I’ve only gotten two pieces of actual relationship advice from my grandma… the first one applies to ladies.
“If you run, he will follow, if you follow, he will run.”
Mind games? PRETTY MUCH! This is so old skool talk. You decide for yourself if it has any validity. Let’s just say, they don’t call [...]

I love/hate it when…

Thursday, September 4th, 2008

You’re at the library working, and the ideas are just rolling…
and then the cutest guy walks in and sits down in a location that’s straight enough in front of you so you can easily stare without turning… but far enough so that it won’t look obvious you’re admiring him like a Picasso….
At that moment, [...]

Attraction Versus Chemistry

Sunday, August 24th, 2008

Are they one and the same? Does attraction guarantee chemistry? Does chemistry guarantee attraction?
Has this ever happened to you? I can look at a guy and be instantly attracted to him. Then we hang out and there are no sparks.
We don’t click.
No chemistry.
No electricity.
On the other hand, I can meet a [...]

Should You Lose Weight for a Guy? (And Some Advice to Guys at the End…)

Saturday, August 2nd, 2008

The obvious answer is “HELL NO!” right?
I wish things were that simple. The simple giveaway answer is, No, do it for yourself if you know you need to in order to be fit and healthy. If you know you’re not comfortable, much less confident in your skin, then yes, do something about it. But [...]

For Women: What Makes You Instantly More Attractive

Friday, May 30th, 2008

Do you believe that you’re lovable just the way you are? It’s true. There’s a guy out there who thinks of you as their “ideal.” Unless of course you hate yourself.
If you don’t love yourself, it will be impossible for you to really love someone else. You know yourself more than you know anyone [...]

What Your Grocery Cart Says about You

Thursday, May 22nd, 2008

I always thought men weren’t into details. A conversation with a guy taught me not to stereotype all men! Check it out:

What’s in your grocery cart?

You Attract Who You Are

Monday, November 19th, 2007

You can’t expect more than you can dish out.
A famous 85 year old matchmaker has successfully matched over 50 married couples. Quite impressive. She’s good at what she does because she calls a spade a spade. She says that in her experience, people’s expectations are not in line with what they can offer.
One day this [...]

Why Do You Like Him?

Tuesday, June 12th, 2007

“The desire of the man is for the woman, but the desire of the woman is for the desire of the man.”
- Unknown
Do you ever notice a guy just because he notices you first? When I was in college, I realized this truth: Sometimes, women start liking men, simply because they like the feeling of [...]

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