1. Learn how to dance or sing and play an instrument

Look at Mr. Timberlake. Seriously, he’s not really hot. If he didn’t dress so damn well and didn’t have the voice and the moves, he’d just be, well, your average Joe.

But watch him dance and his sex appeal goes out the roof! There’s nothing sexier than a man in a well fitted suit …and then add dancing and it’s just too much!

It makes women swoon. They start thinking, “Wow.. look at how he can move his body…” hmmmm…and it’s a not a huge jump to imagine how someone who can move his body so well dancing can also move his body well in another arena.

No wonder sex appeal increases with moves like that. Check this out:

or watch the video.

Same thing goes for men who can play an instrument or sing. What woman doesn’t like to be serenaded? What woman doesn’t like to have a song dedicated to her, especially a song a man wrote for her? There’s a reason why boys in a band get the chicks.

They are musical poets.

Notice how almost all lyrics have to do with feelings?

If there’s anything that all women have in common, it’s this: We love to see a man put his heart on his sleeve. Women love when men talk about their feelings.

This is hard for men to do on a day to day basis.

That’s why music is such a powerful agent to increase a man’s sex appeal.

It’s all about feelings, and it’s become an acceptable societal way for men to express them.

2. Learn how to be funny

I think my boyfriend is attractive. But when he makes me laugh it takes that attraction to another level! I just want to grab him and make out with him right there! (sorry daddy if you’re reading this. not exactly what you want to read your daughter write about!)

I don’t know what it is about humor, besides the fact that girls just want to have fun. Nothing is as fun as including laughter in any activity.

It’s also a sign of confidence when a man can be funny. Every time a guy throws out a joke or says something witty, he’s putting himself out there, waiting for a reaction. He’s in the spotlight.

People could laugh.

People could sneer.

It’s a risk.

And you know what women like, right?

Men who take risks:)

Can you believe, there are actually books so you can learn to be funny! Go to your local library’s online catalog and type in “how to be funny” and I guarantee your library database will have some books on it.

Watch funny shows.

Go to comedy clubs.

Watch and go to be a student, instead of being entertained. Take notes. Pay attention to what makes someone funny.

Like anything, being funny can be learned.

3. And lastly, learn how to be humble (which is a true sign of confidence) as opposed to arrogant (which is usually a sign of a highly insecure person)

hehee but these are just my opinions.