Today, this guest post is contributed by Holly McCarthy, who writes on the subject of dating sites. She invites your feedback at hollymccarthy12@gmail.com. Thanks Holly!

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I’m inspired to write this post after reading the chapter called, “Where’s the Testosterone” from my favorite dating book. (so far)

Take a cue from Kirby of Lipstick Jungle:

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(2007 myspace entry)
I’m Shy around Boys…who I’m attracted to.

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The first step to getting the things you want out of life is this: Decide what you want. ~ Ben Stein

I wrote this blog post because the top things that women type in google to get to my site are:

Do I like him?
What guys think
Why do I like him?
how guys think

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“I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.”
-Maya Angelou

• Be yourself, but the best version of yourself you can be.




• Smile to strangers.


Everytime you smile at someone, it is an action of love, a gift to that person, a beautiful thing.

We shall never know all the good that a simple smile can do.

Peace begins with a smile.

Let us always meet each other with smile, for the smile is the beginning of love.

-Mother Teresa

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It’s almost 2009, how is your dating life going to be different this year??
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Are you new to a city? Want to make some friends? Are you a Christian guy who wants to meet some Christian women? I went to this cafe one day and met a bunch of cool people, including a guy who wore this shirt: (I asked him where he got it and if they made one for women!)

You’re a single Christian man looking for a Christian woman:

You’re here to make friends: (thanks for this idea Joanna!)

You’re an available female inviting singles to contact you:

Enter the world of Shirt-dating where your t-shirt has not only your nickname, but the website shirtdater.com where they can type in your nickname and get your email address. (I recommend creating a new email specifically for dating so you don’t have random strangers contacting you via your main email)

Wouldn’t that be great, to go out in public and then come home and find a nice message in your inbox, saying,

“Hey I noticed you at the basketball game but I chickened out. You had all your friends with you. Anyhow, I’m so glad you were wearing that shirt. You have a gorgeous smile. My name is Rick…”

Ahhh, what will they come up with next??? I love the idea of getting the message across on a t-shirt that you are single and looking. You look confident, brave, and unabashedly on a mission. There’s nothing wrong with publicizing your desire to date. And if you’re a man on a mission???? That’s hot.

(myspace entry June 30, 2006)

What great gravity is this that drew my soul toward yours?
What great force collapsed my orbit, my false state of wholeness?
What is this that wants in me the want in you?

(Inspired by “Blue like Jazz” by Donald Miller)

Do you think that love is a choice or something that you have no control over????

Can you choose who you fall in love with? What do you think???

(courtesy of LeLove)

Just a movie:

I just saw the movie Seven Pounds with Will Smith. Best movie I’ve seen in a long time. Not a chick flick, I promise. One of those movies where you can’t understand everything that’s happening until the very end… and then it all makes sense and you’re left trying to fit all the puzzle pieces together.

It’s part mystery, part thriller, part love story. 100% amazing heart-wrenching film.

For Women!

This book is a great little last minute gift if your girlfriend likes a laugh. You guys can go through it together. Here’s an inside peek:

Oh and Food Porn Daily. Love this photo blog. This has nothing to do with dating advice and everything to do with the fact that it’s lunchtime. Have a great weekend everyone!

What I want to eat right now: Beef Stir Fry